I didn't expect that center

I went into the day expecting a line, expecting to work with two guys I've known for a while, and ended up working with two completely different men, on a completely different game, and in the middle. Part of it was because we're in the playoffs, and because the actual scheduling was done last minute, as it wasn't known until the last minute which teams would be playing. And even though I was there an hour early, and the assignor was already there, I didn't actually find this out until 20 minutes before the scheduled game time.

That's a very short time to mentally prep myself - and I do prep myself differently between a line and a center, especially a men's playoff game! This was followed by the guy who thought he was to be the center (who only showed up five minutes to game-time), being really pissed that he didn't have the middle as the thought... and he made damn sure to bring up a waived-down flag he disagreed with up to the (surprise) assessor. But I'm at the stage in my career where, while I want to do the best games I can, and enjoy the high-pressure matches (of which, sadly, this really didn't count - it was a rather low-key blowout), I really care less what others think. I do my job, I try to do it well - and at the risk of injecting a bit of ego into this, I do it better than most other people (and probably would over a guy who shows up five minutes before kickoff). This isn't to say there are people who are better than I am - there sure are! There's a reason I don't work higher-up games than I do - and I'm OK with admitting that, too. But it's hard not to question someone when they show up that late, and act like it's perfectly normal and OK.

Beyond that, the game was pretty easy. There was an early card (like three minutes in), for a guy trying to distract another player shooting - the sudden yell just as the guy's about to connect. So that was one. A second one came in the early second half on a really hard challenge - even his own players were telling him they could see the card (he didn't, of course).

The third caution was by the other team, and was one of sheer frustration: they went from being down 2-1 at halftime to down 5-1 in the 90th minute, and he just grabbed shirt and pulled - not caring who saw him. I got a small earful about calling it both ways, to which I replied, "Hey, I'm looking at my book here, and the other teams got twice as many cautions as you have; if I'm not calling it both ways, I think you got the better end."

Actually, I didn't get a lot of guff for my calls during the game. It was all pretty straight forward, even if I wasn't mentally prepped for it.

11 October '08 - 09:41 - - default| No comments yet - §

Well, that one didn't happen

I was looking forward to this game for a couple of reasons - first, it was another division 1 men's game. I went from one last year, to four this year, plus lines. Considering how often I've been available (not as much as in the past), and that I'm still a seven (and will be for a long time), that's great.

I also wanted to work this game because of the pitch. It's another of the next-generation field-turf-style fields that's become very popular in high schools over the last few years - except this one is soccer-specific. Not just soccer-specific, soccer-only - no gridiron lines, and the turf selection was selected for soccer, unlike the schools where pointy-ball gets the priority. I wanted to know if the soccer-specific turf was any different than the other stuff I've been on.

But I got a call while on my way that the game was canceled, and one of the teams forfeited. Bummer. So, and since I won't be doing a ton of high school games this year, although I will do some, I might as well pick up with my usual fall/winter refrain: I went to the gym. I sweated. A lot. ;-) (more)

01 October '08 - 00:01 - - default| Only one comment - §

Comment moderation is enabled

It's often said that rules are created because some people just won't play nice. In this case it's true: due to one really sad individual who won't play nice I feel I've been forced to enable comment moderation, which simply means that if you enter a comment, it won't show up on the site until I give it the OK.

Feel free to disagree with me, as before. ;-) I'm basing the moderation on spam, illegal, and unethical information.

27 September '08 - 18:16 - - default| No comments yet - §

An almost genial affair

Sometimes it only takes one player to turn a game from an almost genial affair, to your typical men's game complaint session. We're winding down the adult leagues as well, and the men's playoffs are right around the corner, and even though both of these two teams are inside the playoff zone (and presumably would like to stay there), the first half was downright nice - although I could see one person who could, if he wanted, light the fuse that could turn it it into something nasty.

Unfortunately, the field wasn't conducive to a good game. Even though it's been very dry this month, the sprinkler system on this field had apparently been working overtime, and the grass was well over our ankles, slowing the ball to a crawl. This left both teams sending lots of long-balls to either direction (even if it was cross-wise and not length-wise), because you just couldn't play good touch-soccer. I ended up letting my ARs know that, because of this, I couldn't encroach into their quadrant much, or even go too deep without risking getting caught badly out-of-position; it came down to, "I need to trust you guys to make the foul calls in your quadrant - I'll do what I can, but don't assume I'll be there." It's not an ideal situation, but neither was the field, and I needed to stick with the best-possible solution rather than the perfect one.

The second half brought out the guy I'd been watching; he'd been driving in harder than anyone else, and was also clearly the most emotional, in the first half taking fouls personally that clearly weren't (and there weren't many fouls - maybe three or four). Early on he didn't like a challenge that seems more than perfectly legal and retaliated - not badly, but enough for a foul and raised voices. In the first half, people were joking, and having fun - and this one guy changed the tenor of the game to deadly serious for the next 43 minutes all by himself, almost in an instant. A few minutes he went into a challenge waaaaaay too hard - one of those technically legal, but clearly overly aggressive - I could have booked him, but instead did the raised-voice warning, and then followed him around the pitch for the next fifteen minutes. Eventually, he cooled down, but his opponents had not, either because he pissed them off, or because they sensed a good player to provoke into a send-off - but instead it was them that went over the top, following him to shove in the back (clearly trying to instigate something), earning the first caution.

I had to keep a close eye on him for the rest of the game, even though he played nice for the remainder (even scoring the go-ahead goal); the rest of the game was your typical men's match where the complain about every call, every non-call, and every perceived or actual slight by whomever.

Still, you still have to enjoy 45 minutes of adult men just having fun playing the game - even though you know it won't last. (more)

24 September '08 - 16:51 - - default| Only one comment - §

I liked the grit

Yesterday I had a 14-girls Classic-1 (2nd division) game that bored me nearly to tears - no team play and just run-and-dump for 70 minutes. Today, it the girls were a couple of years older, and down a division - but this game was actually fun. There still wasn't a whole lot for me to do (there had to be less than ten fouls for the game, maybe half that), but the game was so much better. The skill level maybe not so much, but the players went into the game with much more gusto; what they lacked in skills they made up for in grit, taking and giving hits with no complaint, just determination.

I have to admit, I'm still steering away from youth games (especially since I'm cutting down the number of games I referee in general), but at least this one was fun to watch, and kept me on my toes, even if I wasn't needed to actually blow my whistle a lot.

08 September '08 - 12:24 - - default| No comments yet - §

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Updated Reading of the LOTG - §

I've updated the audio-recording of the Laws of the Game. It's still not a professional recording, there's still bound to be little mistakes (and maybe even big ones - did I mention it's not a professional recording?). If you're like me, and spend a lot of the time in the car (or someplace else where reading isn't practical, but listening is), maybe this will help you.

No update to the ATR yet - the last couple years has seen the USSF tighten up on it's copyright; and although I can't see this as a threat to them, I haven't decided if the greater good is worth more than the possible financial hit.

You can download the updated reading here (44.5 MB).

17 Mar '08 - 20:06 | No comments yet

The New USSF Sock: This End Up - §

OSI is gradually pushing out the pieces of the new uniform, and recently I obtained the final piece of the revamp - the socks. I try to be very honest about the good and the bad about OSI (see this article for a review of the new jerseys), but I've always loved the fit of their socks; and with the revamp of the new socks, the fit of the stockings haven't changed, but the styling has.

Let's be perfectly clear: 90% or more of referees in this country do not need these socks. (more)

11 Feb '08 - 21:15 | six comments, already

Refblog.com OS X Dashboard Widget - §

OK, so I'm a geek: aside from the owner, I'm the only one in the company I work for that doesn't have kids, so I'm stucking working all week (except for Tuesday), so instead of going elsewhere to visit family, I'm here playing around with utilities in the latest version of OS X, in this case, DashCode.

So, with little fanfare, I submit a Dashboard Widget for you Mac users that brings up this humble little blog. I have no graphical abilities, so I won't claim it's pretty, but it does work, using this existing RSS feed. You can download it here (more)

22 Dec '07 - 20:41 | No comments yet

First Look: The 2008 OSI/USSF Uniform - §

Note: When you click the (more) link to view the entire article, you'll want to increase, if not maximize, the screen to see both the text and pictures.

I won't kid you about buying the jerseys so I can review them on the site - no, I bought them because I want to do Regionals again, I want to do semi-pro games again - I want to do good games. Before the first time I went to Regionals (and what a neat thing it is to say that), I was told by one of the assessors who was going with us, the equivalent of, "Good, you have Official Sports jerseys - that's what you're supposed to have"; he then went on to say that since Regionals is a USSF sponsored tournament, and OSI is a USSF sponsor, you should wear OSI gear.

I'm sure OSI loves to hear that, because even with holiday "specials" going on, you're going to shell out over $500 if you decide to refit your entire wardrobe (more)

14 Dec '07 - 16:28 | twelve comments, already

Regionals Diary 2007 - §

I was privileged enough to be invited back to participate in the US Youth Soccer regional tournament; all those who won their respective State Cups, or got in from winning the Regional League come here to fight for a berth to the national championship. It's tremendous soccer, and plenty of the joy of victory and the agony of defeat for referees as well (more)

10 Nov '07 - 01:25 | three comments, already

10 Best of 2006, The List - §

Below are my totally subjective list of the best entries I wrote in 2006. I've also tossed in, just in case you want to want to see how things have changed, added the "Best Of" lists for 2005, 2004, and 2003 . (more)

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Review of the Timex O.V.A. (Optimum Viewing Angle) Watch - §

Reffing, like soccer itself, is pretty simple in its requirements: you need to be there, know the Laws of the Game, and have the instruments to enforce it. The bare essentials of the later requirement are a whistle (to get people’s attention), cards (to administer misconduct, and in some places that can be flexible), a place to write down important facts about the game (including the score), and a watch (to keep track of the amount of time in the game).

I’m pretty picky about watches, although my requirements are few: (more)

20 Apr '07 - 17:57 | five comments, already

How to Become a Better Referee - §

As I was editing How to Become a Referee, several things came to mind on things that you can do to become a better referee. This is my all means not an exhaustive list, but something I've pick up over the years, after I decided that I wanted to keep blowing the whistle, and that I wanted to become better at it. Feel free to add suggestions. (more)

15 Mar '07 - 22:23 | two comments, already

How to Become a Referee - §

Becoming a referee is not a terribly difficult process - but let's be totally honest here - staying one is. Not having a ton of experience, I can't help a whole lot with the later, but here's a quick summary of what to do for the former (OK, and a little of what I've learned - take with salt). (more)

28 Jan '07 - 20:41 | two comments, already

USA Cup Diary 2006 - §

Even with some flaws this year, it's still the best run, and one of the most memorable, if not the most optimistic, tournaments in the nation. As usual, the good, the bad, and the ugly - with the ugly being more spread out this year, but not quite as intense as last (more)

27 Sep '06 - 11:18 | four comments, already

10 Best of 2005, The List - §

Below are my totally subjective list of the best entries I wrote in 2005. I've also tossed in, just in case you want to want to see how things have changed, added the "Best Of" lists for 2004 and 2003 (more)

21 Feb '06 - 17:54 | No comments yet

List of Products Reviewed - §

There have been three formal reviews of products on this site. Here they are, in order:

Review of Masterclass for Soccer Officials

Review of the RefsCall Electronic Flag Set

Product review of the new USSF Shorts

18 Feb '06 - 10:06 | No comments yet

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